Hi Linda...catching up.

I think you know exactly what you need to do...

Recent reminders on Youtube from MWD about "acting as if"... I recently watched.

YES!!! Act as if you are his loving wife saying goodbye for a trip. Imagine the best as he returns his love back, with a welcoming hug.

Then, leave it at that. A light hearted comment if you can do that. And no contact, unless he initiates it.

((hugs)) YOU CAN DO THIS!!!!

//magic!

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)