This is where the painful work begins Magic. Not to change to get W back but to be a better you. I will be right here with you to help. You may hate hearing some truths at first but it will feel soooo good to acknowledge and understand yourself later on. You may ask why I'm not including your W in this? Cause she is not here telling her side of things. So we will not spend time on her and her issues. They wouldn't help you.
This is not a therapy site. It is ok to vent and journal. Psychoanalysis doesn't really work and if anyone asks you if you hated your father and wanted to married your mom, stay away from that person.
So time to set goals for your life. Exclude W from them. See I in the am
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
