these are people whom we have had a long term relationship with and not just someone you just met in a bar. There a many things that contribute to the "non-attraction". A big part is the things we've done to the WAS to make them walk out in the first place. If they don't want to forgive those things that have happened, and don't want to chance getting hurt again, no amount of outside stimuli is going to help.
I agree. But isn't it also possible that we could make the changes to get beyond these things, be forgiven for them, and still have our spouses not be attracted to us? Is it possible that learning how to be more attractive could help? Are you familiar with neuro linguistic programming? Are you aware that learning these techniques could help us in many aspects of our lives and not just attraction?
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)
