sandi2, I'm with you. Everything I read from MWD in DR and "Change Your Life..." about counselors applies to this one. Always wanting everything out there... The restaurant isn't really a working inn - no implication of anything but dinner out. But - I'll keep that one in reserve in case she does indicate wanting to move things forward at some point. We've been doing good going to dinner/movies, etc. I will just play it cool. I might invite her to dinner on the weekend, somewhere not so fancy , and not even mention the anniversary.
LTH, yeah. I let the IC put that bug in my head. I was fine with leaving that for W to broach if she desires.
whizzed, yep. It *is* tricky. One of the land mines in the minefield. :-)
Bond, I shall do my best to continue to help where and when I can.
That reminds me of some videos of MWD on YouTube - the subject was Guerrilla Divorce Busting. Basically it was about steering people towards DB, rather than being that well meaning friend that is so dangerous to troubled marriages. But we know that around here already, right? ;-)
