I am titanium

[Raine]

Wow Wonka, that is really spooky. H took the LL test before BD. I think when he was trying to figure out what was wrong with "us." He told me he talked to me about this, but I don't remember. I don't remember him ever bringing it up until we were meeting with a MC after BD. He has mentioned this several times that he talked to me about this and upset that I didn't remember him doing so. I think I would remember my H bringing up something like this...I mean what woman wouldn't? The first time I ever heard of the book was from the MC, but who knows. Just as likely he did and I wasn't "listening."

So his result after the LL test? Yes, you guess it. Quality Time.

Thanks for all the validation. I am trying to be there for him, be supportive, giving him space, but most of the time I question myself. It's so nice to just be me, without questioning everything I'm doing and saying.