Figuring out the old and new life

[RosaLinda]

Ambivalent "When the come to realization that it is "about them" how much further is the journey? Anyone?"

I think every sitch is different Ambivalent. I got "I love you but..." closely followed by "It's not you, it's me" in January 2010. H's replay still going strong 3 years and 9 months (but who's counting ) later. We all just read a great book by Laura Munson about her H's MLC, which lasted about 3 or 4 months. So, who knows? 

Good luck to you!

FY, that second post is worse and sadder than the one you posted earlier. The poster was sensitive enough to cry about some strangers' pain, yet said she goes for her H's jugular when she detects any weakness, to feed the monster inside her. "For all of you husbands out there, please don't hate your wife, she loves you, but she has a problem." 

This woman actually realizes that she still loves her H, but has a "problem?????" Holy cow.