Magic anger issues got me here. It concerns me that you dismiss it so easily. When you say that you didn't hit her is like a racist saying "but I have a black friend". I can sit and type a list of complaints about my exw. She wasn't perfect either. It wouldn't help me change me if I did that. Your criticisms of her were probably more painful than a smack across the face. To her it was all too painful. Your controlling her diet was distasteful at best. We are considered passive/aggressive people. Once you get to know yourself you will be a much better man. You will like it. So my advice is to put that energy in picking your W apart onto yourself. It will serve you better.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
