Leave the W out of it. Add him if you want, but if he is a d1ck and y'all aren't friends then why add him. The decision should not be based on W at all


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it