Leave the W out of it. Add him if you want, but if he is a d1ck and y'all aren't friends then why add him. The decision should not be based on W at all
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it