I'm glad sandi2 replied because I wasn't sure what advice to give you on the anniversary. I definitely think discussing your R (in any way) would be a bad idea right now.
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13