Thanks GALbaby and TTD180. GALbaby, yes it is hard to get jobs back in SE QLD, but I have satisfied there (Ed dept) request of doing 3 years country service before coming back to the same area and position.
On a different note, speaking to my brother last night (very supportive since BD) he mentioned his take on the W is that she has been very evasive over the years. That is she will not come out and say things that are affecting her as much as she should/could. He believes her not talking to me/texting/ringing or seeing me is the same evasive attitude.
Don't know where to go with that, it was just his input. Again it doesn't change anything about my way of thinking.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.