Living In The Now (La Deuxieme)

[BrightFuture]

So many parallels. In my sitch, I decided to cut ties....at least as much as possible. I think the continued contact was preventing her from truly figuring out her stuff. As long as I was there as her crutch, she just seemed to spin the same pattern over and over.

Are you watching your H for those same patterns? Is he circling? Or is he progressing?

This is just the opposite of my sitch. I don’t have contact with H, but it doesn’t look like he is figuring out his stuff. Or, maybe he is, and this is why he is sticking to his decision to stay apart.

Ruby, I understand your fear of letting H go completely. I don’t have much contact with my H, but I think that I have this fear too. I catch myself thinking about it sometimes. I know I will be OK without him, but then I don’t know what to do with all the history and memories. I’m still working on this.