One giant leap forward! - Part 5

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I was going to reply but I thought it's best not to especially after what she called me. The way she feels about me is the way I feel about her.

Please don't acknowledge her remarks.

For all you know, she has fake accounts watching your FB.

She tells you how wrong you are, but she thinks it's perfectly fine to put a picture of her and OM up for the world to see. I guarantee you she would be ready to file papers if she heard you even talked to another woman. Just like she responded when your mother kept the kids while you were at work that time.

Things will never be equal in her world. What is fine for her to do.....does not apply to you, in her way of thinking.

The best way to handle it is to stop looking at her FB and don't reply to her messages. Don't give her the satisfaction that it bothers you....and certainly not let her know you went under a false name to take a look.

You are better, higher, and deserve much more.

Thanks Sandi, I really do feel like I deserve more.


I agree that things well never be equal in her world. She needs help of the professional kind.

I spoke to my brother briefly about what is happening right now. He said with what he has seen me do over the last 14 months I am the most patient, caring and giving separated husband he's ever seen (in a good way) and I should be proud of that.
I thanked him for that. I said I believe I have followed the right path but now I need to put my M over here (gesture to the side) and get on with my life, if I need to look at it at some point again I will.

I will stop looking at Facebook, I haven't looked at hers for ages.
I told my brother tonight that no matter what he sees, I don't want to know.

Obviously the thought of OM is horrible but it has done a few things for me strangely enough.
I feel like I can leave the M and get on with life until something really changes, not hanging on waiting for scraps.
I also look in the mirror and think, you handsome ba5tard you!