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In a way i was always punching above my weight with my W. She is a 8.5 or a 9 on a good day. I'm 7-8.


This is negative self talk. Their was a reason why she chose to marry you and it was not because you were below her.

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OM is maybe 5 with a paper bag over his head.


I know this feels good to say and I lol'd... however comparing ourselves to OM is not helpful to us. Keep working on you T1, be the most awesome T1 their is. Keep your focus on the work in front of you.


You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.