TRule #9 says "Don’t schedule dates together." Today I asked my H if he wants to go to a park with me and our kids next Saturday since I bought the tickets long time ago, he said yes he can go with us. Did I make a mistake here? Shouldn't I ask him to join us?
That's not really a date, it's a family thing. It's OK to continue family activities for the kids, because they need the support right now more than ever. MWD discussed this in DR, she says it's OK to invite your spouse along on things like this as long as you make it clear that you and the kids are going regardless. So if he goes then fine, but if he doesn't go, well that's fine too because you and the kids are still going without him.
