Hi NQ, I made it to your thread Well it was only a hop, skip and jump away The way I read it, your H is only saying those things about you because he's going through a MLC and he's trying to think of excuses why he decided to go it alone. Sometimes as well they say these things to their friends to make them look good in front of their friends and you look bad in their eyes. I don't blame you for being turned off by him saying to his friends - I'm going to stay in to have some fun with the missus tomorrow night. I fely the same about my H, it was as if that was all he wanted out of our M and half the time I was too tired, no drive or recurring thrush. I still get that now even though H hasn't been here for about 5 months and the doc can't seem to find anything wrong I think the only 2x4 I would give you is if you feel like giving up then you need to change your nickname, lol. Try not to think and worry about "the talk", it sounds like he's forgotten all about it anyway! Try not to think and worry about H either, go out with your son and enjoy yourself this weekend He'll soon get fed up the "fake" look with OW if that's how she dresses? Don't change yourself for H, change yourself for you! When your son is back at college, treat yourself with a new haircut, a manicure or a pedicure, tinted eyelashes and eyebrows or a nice relaxing massage. It'll make you feel and look good and it will be something that you're doing for you and not for him
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Well it was only a hop, skip and jump away 
