Help! I'm so hopeless and devastated...

[peaceSJ]

Thank you for your suggestion. I have a question. I'm reading DR book now, and am following the rules. Rule #9 says "Don’t schedule dates together." Today I asked my H if he wants to go to a park with me and our kids next Saturday since I bought the tickets long time ago, he said yes he can go with us. Did I make a mistake here? Shouldn't I ask him to join us?