Wouldnt you think she would just address it with me as she stated she would. Oh, i have learned my lesson no more initiating contact from my end. But since I have stupidly put this out there it would be interesting for her to finally address this. I only bring this up because it is out there now and since I wont be contacting anymore I would at least like to hear whats in her mind(other than a raging storm). 4 months with no discussions about D is not normal from a WAS.
In this case, no news is good news. I promise, if you find a way to get around your new resolve and contact her to find out why she hasn't answered....she will give one, and you won't like it. Leave sleeping dogs alone.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
