It's about me being able to get unstuck from reacting out of pain. It's about being able to get to a place of being able to accept what is and focus on what I love and respect about her. To be able to offer friendship.
I don't think either one of us are entirely there yet. I can't expect it to just magically happen. And I suspect that her contact with me will be carefully limited in deference to her new R, so it may never happen. But I want to be a person who can do that.
