I have talked W to before, and she wanted a dissolution. I refused because I said that would legally be me admitting our marriage was a mistake and over; I can't in good conscience do that. Also, I have very good legal representation.
The grounds are a joke; I could easily turn around and file the exact same grounds on her, and have better proof.
She is trying to scare me into mediation or a dissolution. My only concern is that she has friends that would willing go to court and lie under oath for her, so I'm going to have to proceed carefully.