"I do have problems with anger and trying to control her life, "

Can you give specific examples? And I'm talking about before bomb drop.

"You mean like it gets worse?"

Much. Your W will treat you like she stepped on something. That's why you need to develop your think skin now.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER