Originally Posted By: RosaLinda
Yes your DB wolf pack IS here Ruby, and ready to move in at your signal. And we're fierce, grrrrrrrr!

Thanks for addressing the fear post Ruby. I guess that letting my H go completely is my greatest fear too, but it's being taken out of my hands in a week. Then I'll have a month to do the work at eliminating that stomach pit.

I truly do not believe that your H is in love with Massage Girl. Infatuated maybe, but true love? Nope. Their relationship is built on sand. You have been a life line and support for me Ruby. What would you tell me if I said I think my H loves the Russian Tramp? That their relationship is made of smoke and mirrors, not real at all, a temporary infatuation. Right? Same goes for your H and MG. It just seems to me (no vet by any means smile ) that your H is moving more towards you, a bit every week. It's easier to see from out here, reading all your posts and not having to live them!

I seem to remember you saying that your H gave you permission to smack him if he goes back?! Besides cutting the ties, I hope you take him up on that!


Thanks Linda and will be catching up on everyone soon. I am glad you see movement. So do I but am not confusing it with his growth. As Breakdown has said it's circular but its not my journey is it now?

I also have to say that I can't say if he is truly in love. I'm not him. Do they have the history and connection? No. But she may give things I can't or don't. Who am I to say??

But thanks Linda. And no to the RW and your H. smile. That's a green card