Help! I'm so hopeless and devastated...

[MrBond]

There are many success stories. Usually what happens is that once the M has been reconciled, they stop posting. I'm one of the success stories so don't give up.

Also, you should just stick to your one thread to get individualized help.

Here is your post from another thread:
"I'm following these rules now, but it seems my H didn't notice the change at all. If any of you are doing it, could you share the results? I do need some sucessful stories to encourage me. Otherwise I don't know if I shoud give up my hope...

BTW, what is 180?"

How much of DR have you read? These changes take time and aren't overnight. It's going to take alot of patience.