Thanks everyone for the support. My daughter told me that my wife told her that she still wants to go to the steak house for dinner. So I will probably do that. I honestly don't feel like doing anything for her but I did send her flowers. She did txt me asking me why i was off today. I told her it was planned a long time ago. My best friend tells me I should just return the diamond studs (tempting). I slept in my daughters room last night and will probably continue for now. I feel like just going dark with her and only contacting her if she approaches. I still want to save this marriage but it feels like such an impossibility. I don't know if I should still decorate the bedroom with balloons, chocolates, etc. I feel like i am rewarding her for bad behavior. I will write later. Just got done seeing an attorney for some legal advice.
