most of those skills cant be Deedemonstrated until you have a comnited spouse, it is getting them to recommit that requires some game play....I think.
Expand on this if you would.
I'd like to see this response, too, but I think it has to do with the difference between working at RE-ATTRACTION, and beginning to actually work on the RELATIONSHIP. Many of us contend that far too little attention is paid to working on basic laws of human ATTRACTION, and learning to use them to your advantage when DBing. It's the physiological underpinning beneath EVERYTHING YOU DO.