Yes. I didn't hit bottom until well after BD, and ironically I thought I was handling everything just fine right up until it happened. But then I fell into a black pit the likes of which I had never experienced before, it was awful. Or you may have one of those wives that goes monster on you. My W isn't like that thank goodness, but read some of the threads on the MLC forum and it'll really open your eyes to how bad things can get.
