Originally Posted By: kate's_place
Oh, and AS? Don't be too hard on the guy, it's how he was raised. His role was to make others happy, basically. Pair that with a strong used to be controlling woman like me and it would be a recipe for disaster eventually.

I am learning to let people in, he is learning to shut them out wink

What a journey


This is great, Ruby. Growth comes from knowing ourselves.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss