Oh MizJ aren't we all living the dream? Well, a dream anyway. And the kind that a person has when they've eaten before bedtime.
So on some level it appears that your H recognizes that losing you would not be a good thing. I loved that you thought to ask. We make these assumptions sometimes about what people mean and we are almost always wrong.
Sorry to hear about D's jail time but it is good that it has made an impression. I was a bit of a troubled child but now I am all responsible and bloody boring, so she may turn out all right yet. You are an excellent mother and she knows it.