I cannot really relate to having the MLCer underfoot all of the time since my ditch is so opposite. But I do agree that if she really felt she needed to physically run from you, she would. You'll know when it is time for something different, if not for your relationship then for you, so that you don't run out of patience or get tired before she does. A change is as good as a rest, so I've been told.
That certainly was an interesting quote. There is so much of the MLC that I can understand and can even sympathize with. It is difficult to know that you are unhappy but don't know how to fix it. But there is so much I don't understand, too. Like where the total lack of any regard comes from or the need to be cruel.
For her sake, I hope she has communicated that same thing to her husband. No doubt he is reeling but having at least a window into our partners head would have been helpful on this journey.
