"Courage is not the absence of fear. I find fear is the hardest thing to live with, so I will not do it anymore."

but how? How? By just deciding you won't, and facing up to the possible svckiest worst possible future? You are brave Ruby, in talking to him about his GFs, in how you push yourself, in how you kindly set SE2 free. Let him go with love too. I guess DBing is for living, not just saving our marriages.

And of course you're still in love with H. smile


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17