I think you are referring to something I said on another thread, so let me clarify. I had been dating someone else who was also separated and we were both totally aware of each other's situations. We have not actually seen each other since my w came more strongly back in the picture a few weeks ago. I officially told her I wouldn't see her anymore yesterday. I am going out with my w tomorrow.
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)