Magic you decide your future. Not all of it but some. The LBS decides to remain stuck angry and unhappy, empty. Or to dream of a new life without wife or husband. See, they left us a long time ago. We just didn't see it. So it is your decision what your future life will look like excluding your spouse. It took me a long time to understand that. Yes I own 50% of why my M failed. But I own 100% of how I want to spend the rest of my life.
I know very well how it feels to have no say or control in a divorce. I remember that feeling all too well. It still hurts. But know this, it will get better much better. So start dreaming of a new life without W. imagine how that would look like. Feel the happiness. And maybe she will see the light and join you. Good luck my friend
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
