Thanks LTH.
Based on what you said that's what I went and did.
I told W I was sorry for coming across that way and I can understand why she would have those concerns. And to let please point out to me when she notices it because I want to be the person she leans on


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it