Calling AS!! Need some advice. W broke down in counseling about something today that I said. Told counselor this is what she was talking about in her "one on one" session. Said that I am such a good salesman and will just say what is needed at the moment. She says, I'll say one thing in the heat of the moment and then another when discussed later. Because of this she feels like she can't come to me with emotional issues sometimes. How do I do better at validating concerns? I am genuinely concerned about whatever is bothering her and want to be there for her, but because of past behavior on my part she is having a hard time trusting that yet
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
