One giant leap forward! - Part 5

[cbtdad]

Good post T!
You definitely seem better and off the rollercoaster.
If you get a divorce do you plan to get the kids every weekend?
I would set up something of an agreement in writing at this point.
Not sure how it works across the pond, but that's something W and I had to do while separated. We did continue to do family things together because son was 3 and we thought it was important for him.
Oddly enough, the more we did things together the more I realized I/we/son would be ok regardless of the outcome. Also the more family things we started doing allowed W to see changes in me.
You have to do what makes YOU feel good about you right now. That doesn't mean be selfish, but certainly not your job to play husband to your W right now.
She needs a taste of what reality will be