Great thread. For me, and that's the only thing I control. . I started DB to save my marriage. None of my other "tactics" worked. My marriage was slipping away, I was slipping way. I started DB as a save. But then I got it. DB is more about me. Making me a whole, confident, individual ready for one of two things: being married to my WAS again or being fulfilled on my own. Making me a better spouse and a better person.
Games? A little. You can see it that way. But sooner or later, if your not playing games with yourself, MWD's therapy will make you better... I am. From when I first logged in? So much better.
Me(F):40 WAW:44 T:13yrs M:9yrs BD:2/12 (I saw a text) ILYBINILWY: 5/12 PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11) S:2/13 Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13 W moves home to R: 10/13
. I started DB to save my marriage. None of my other "tactics" worked. My marriage was slipping away, I was slipping way. I started DB as a save. But then I got it. DB is more about me. Making me a whole, confident, individual ready for one of two things: being married to my WAS again or being fulfilled on my own. Making me a better spouse and a better person.