Thanks for the reply PS. That is how I feel right now. We both made mistake,but she is the one throwing it all away when there are other options to explore. She has let herself believe that her "happiness" is more important than anything else.
An interesting thing is, her mom passed when we were teens and her dad remarried about a year after we did, and she still resents her step mom for marrying her dad and "changing everything" like she was erasing her mom.
Me-41 W-41 M-20y 2 teen sons 1 preteen son BD/ilybinilwy 6/8/13 I moved out 7/24/13