Thank you so much FOTW. You speak such words of wisdom. It's just a shame that until we are ready for the message, they are just words. I can see how if I had just started full on DB when this started, I may be in a different place, but who knows?
I hope at the very least, someone who is just finding themselves in this position can see that trying to fight for the love and to try and fix every problem will just bring misery. Please, to anyone reading, if you are in the same shoes as me, DB or bust!
Me-41 W-41 M-20y 2 teen sons 1 preteen son BD/ilybinilwy 6/8/13 I moved out 7/24/13