So let's agree to get beyond the term "game playing" and agree that we all do things that may feel wrong, but we know will lead to a better outcome for our situations. What we choose to do will depend on what we think is right for each of our situations and our personal moral values; we are all going to be guided by our own moral compass.
What if I told you that, all else equal, wearing red will make you a more attractive person? Would you wear red more often? Or would you not feel right about manipulating others through wearing a particular color? (Btw, this is in fact true, both genders find the opposite sex more attractive in red)
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)