I know you need to balance activities and family time, however, these issues are faced by families every day whether they are M or D. Yes, some kids are in too many things and it rules lives completely, but it is hard to just pick a day and say "nope, you can't do anything on Sat/Sun". In an effort to keep things under control, we only allow one activity at a time. If S is doing baseball, no scouts, etc..
I am sorry you have to have surgery but hopefully this means they actually know what the problem is now and they can fix it?! Good luck
Fully agree with lovethehub, when you have kids, whether separated or in a good marriage, these issues come up all the time.
Good luck with the surgery F.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
