I haven't heard anything yet about the D, I have a feeling that H has not been to the solicitor. He's got to pay for it and he doesn't have much money coming in so I'm thinking he can't afford it. To be honest, I've not really thought much about it, I've got to the stage now that if it happens, it happens! I've got my plan in case it does happen, but I'm not going to dwell on it. I won't be asking him about it, that will be breaking DB/Sandi's rules. You have to keep up with your PMA and you can't if you're thinking negatively all the time.
I urge you again to stop worrying about what your W said the last time she emailed you. Your thoughts are still dwelling on the contact that you have with your W. I know it's hard, I've been there. I know it was only a week that I had NC with my H, but at least I didn't contact him first smile That wasn't a dig btw, believe me I wanted to contact him as you know.
You wrote some good advice on my thread. You should read the advice you put on my thread and apply it to your own sitch smile

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T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!