thanks again for investing so much into my situation! I truely apprecaite that. I was thrilled when I saw your additional responses! It really helps keep my spirits up.
You make some good points here and I'm going to have to have faith that my wife will eventually come out of this fog and see what is before her. A man who loves his family, accepts responsibility and accountability for his mistakes of the past and who is committed to rebuilding a new marriage. Becuase to be honest, I didn't like the one we had either. It takes two, I only hope that she is willing to invest herself again at some point. You are an inspiration.
You're right about the therapy, we did discuss my marriage and didn't focus on the purpose of the visit. This was the intake/initial visit, so I'll look to address my anger and esteem and drinking issues on 9/4, my next visit.
I have my second DB coaching call tomorrow with Joanne. I have a lot to talk to her about and from my understanding, she's supposed to be pretty good at this, so I'm looking forward to it.
Right now, my focus will be to keep the OM and the A out of mind and concentrate on me and making me better.
Should you have any other thoughts, please don't hesitate to chime in. I really appreciate your willingness to share your story and help another!
Thanks.
Vince B M=10 yrs T=13 yrs M45 / H 44 2 Boys 5 & 8 D Day: 7/16/13
