WOW Bugsy. I don't come here as often as I once did. But I'm glad I stopped by and read your update. Pretty interesting.

"At present, the whole bed is mine, I have books in the bed next to me, I can move all I want in the bed and not worry about disturbing anyone, I wake up on my schedule"

That^^^^cracked me up.:) Yeap I completely understand this and I'm loving my new freedom. even though I'm seen someone is very different. And yes you change as a person in this journey. The one thing I learned is that at the end the LBS gets to decide.
Good job my friend lots of luck I'm rooting for ya


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden