One other thing: I was hesitant about dishing out for DB counseling but it is the best counseling I have had by far. Nothing but straight advice on action I can take. I really needed that.
T 10 years, M 4 years, both 28 years old 7/3/2013 - W wanted D, we attempted to reconcile 7/20/2013 - discovered W's EA, attempted to reconcile 8/24/2013 - W told me she wanted D, filed papers
