I just wanted to hop on and post a quick update. Still no sign of baby yet.
My h has gone from sporadic texts to calling me throughout the day every day, at times it's to check on how I'm doing, other times just to chat. He brought me donuts yesterday and then hung around for a bit before asking me to lunch. Then he drove me to an appointment today and asked if I'd go to a bookstore with him afterwords. It's such a different place to be in than a week or two ago where I was mostly on my own w/ no indication of what to think from him. Now it feels like he can't get enough of hearing from me!
I can tell he's eager for the baby to arrive, but it also seems like he is really making me part of his daily life again.
I'm still leaning back and letting him take the lead on things. My go to advice nowadays when I'm unsure what to do... Is to do nothing it's been working out and helping to keep the pace of things slow when it's so tempting to push for more too quickly since everything feels so positive at the moment.
BD: Aug 2012 Separated since May 2013 S born Aug 2013 Aug 2013 H agrees to consider 'baby steps toward working things out' H is/was actively seeing someone?