BC39.....The fight for my marriage continues

[BC39]

Thanks Adinva,

I agree. I may find a way to bring it up as if its no big deal, then I will leave it up to her.

However, much more important for me is that my sitch opened my eyes to big things I needed to address. I slacked off. I neglected my important relationships and didn't know about love languages. Defense mechanisms that served a purpose once had become bad habits that hurt my relationship. Issues from my past and in my personality needed to be addressed so I could be a happier healthier person. There's a lot more, I won't bore you. But since my H left, no matter why he left

I was guilty of those same things. I, like you, am a better person today than I was at BD.

I've looked at myself and becoming someone only a fool would leave

Me too