Hi Anotherstander Thanks for your comments . I am worried that he will get himself into some sort of financial commitment with the OW and that will affect the support he gives our children
He also recently returned from a holiday with the OW and her 3 children !!! Our 12year old saw pictures of him on his phone with his "new family " and was totally devastated !! My heart broke for my son ! He was so gutted that his father was spending time with them and not him !! I suspect the OW paid for the holiday ! I did not mention it to my H because my son had confided in me and also because I did a 180 !! Previously I would have confronted him !
I have withdrawn from him because he upset my son. He didnt need to let son See the pictures !! My feelings for him are changing . .He senses it because he has twice sent me txts asking if I was ok? He has never asked since he left !! He knows that I have been going out and he asked if I was going to night clubs ! I just laughed- what a cheek , it's none of his business !
I feel that I am treading water , I wonder if I should let sleeping dogs lie and forget about what he is doing , but on the other hand I am angry at the upset he is causing ! I think that he is should have had more sense than to let my / our son see pictured of him With another family !!!!!!! I need to protect him from future hurts !What to do ????
