I'm not sure how well this will go over but does anyone have some simple suggestions for taking my mind off things with W? I'm doing my best to GAL but even when I'm off doing my own thing, I'm constantly thinking about my situation with her.

Last night was her trip to Atlantic City. She went dark for a good 18 hours or so while down there. I see how she is when we're together and she has no problem taking or making calls, texts, etc to her friends. Obviously, I'm not on that same level as them where she would reach out to me unprompted but it definitely makes you feel a little snake-bit to be an afterthought.


M: 29
W: 29
T: 12 years
M: 4 years
Discovered OM: 02/10/12
ILYBNILWY: 03/01/12
W Moves Out: 05/04/12
Reconciliation Starts: 09/06/12
In-house Separation (Again): 03/09/13