BC39.....The fight for my marriage continues

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Something I didn't give serious thought too until yesterday...

I was talking to my sister about some of my sitch. My sister knows my W well. My sisters thoughts (much like others that are close to W and I and know about our sitch) was that despite everything thats gone on, they're still surprised by W and I are going thru this. W just doesn't seem herself in the big picture.

Then my sister said "has she had her hormone levels checked"?

I have seen Sandi2 suggest this to various people.

This got me thinking.

The surgery I mentioned that W has to get done in the near future is to remove her ovary because there are multiple cysts on it. W had one cyst that we knew about for a long time, but when her recent tests came back last month there were 3.

This condition is caused from improper hormone levels.

I don't want to be reaching for answers for my W behaviour and thoughts but this is hard to ignore.