Originally Posted By: kate's_place
It s really good! As a slave to emotions and what others thought of me, it is also scary...and freeing...and scary and calm (who knew??)

I will check her out, you haven't steered me wrong yet wink


I understand this well... I've been working on learning to regulate my emotions. It's nice to feel like I have an on/off switch now, I am in control. Still working on not worrying about what others think of me part though...
Can't wait to continue to read about your growth in this new thread smile


me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope