The rollercoaster ride continues, and I think I need a neck brace. I feel some whiplash coming on. A week ago, H and I had a great time out with D. This past Friday, H doesn't want me around him, in his house, blah blah blah. We barely spoke the entire weekend. And today he wants to ML.
So sorry you're going through this Sometimes I wonder which is worse, having a waffling spouse like yours who runs hot and cold or having a totally shut down spouse like mine that is ALWAYS cold. My W has never backed down from being done with me. Last time we ML was a year ago. On the one hand it's easier to detach when your spouse is always cold, but on the other hand it's really tough to hang onto any hope of reconciliation at all.
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I asked him if he was getting my emails, and his response was he gets so many that he quit reading them.
LOL! Hey, I think I'll start using that one at work!! "Oh, you needed something today? I didn't read it, I get too many emails so I quit reading them." Sounds reasonable!
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Man, that guy loves his wife. I was envious.
I was just reading a story about a couple that were married 65 years and died hours apart. Their adult kids said they had a lifelong love affair that lasted right up until death. Said in old age they played cards together for hours each day. It really touched my heart, if only all our M's could be like that!
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I don't know what to make of this.
It is exactly what it looks like, he's interested in you. Guys are not subtle about such things.
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I thought he was in an R, but I'm not sure.
You might broach that subject with him before things go any farther, because he very well could be. It's alarming how many men think it's OK to burn the candle at both ends.
Sometimes I wonder which is worse, having a waffling spouse like yours who runs hot and cold or having a totally shut down spouse like mine that is ALWAYS cold. My W has never backed down from being done with me. Last time we ML was a year ago. On the one hand it's easier to detach when your spouse is always cold, but on the other hand it's really tough to hang onto any hope of reconciliation at all. 
